• Have you been having trouble finding the "right" partner and feel that you waste a lot of time with Mr. or Ms. Wrong?
  • Do you believe that all the "good ones" are already taken?
  • Recently out of a long-term relationship and unsure of how to get back into the game?
  • Have you become bitter by being repeatedly disappointed with the opposite sex?
  • Confused about relationships that start off with a bang and go up in smoke shortly thereafter?
  • Don't have the faintest idea how to flirt or understand the romantic value of it?

Most single men and women are tired of dating, and looking for a partner they can settle down with. After all, dating is stressful! With each new person you meet there is excitement and hopeful anticipation. Sadly most singles return home disappointed by the serious knuckleheads they meet - folks with no manners, that say stupid things, do stupid things, or with whom there is no chemistry.

Not every date is going to go the distance or anywhere at all! But if you repeatedly have a hard time getting even a second date with everyone you meet, its time to examine your behavior and make sure you aren't making these horrific dating blunders.

You told him that you loved him and would do anything for him; but now it seems you're doing EVERYTHING for him, including his laundry and chauffeuring him around. It's gotten so bad that your friends jokingly refer to him as "Miss Daisy" behind your back. How did you get here?

Despite what you've been led to believe about relationships, it is possible to do too much for your guy. This is a particular problem when he is not doing anything to reciprocate your caring gestures and your love is one-sided.

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Thank You Ms. HeartBeat!
Just to follow up - your suggestion worked! We are now 6 months into a committed
relationship and are on a wonderful vacation in Maui. You are an advice GODDESS! Thanks again! -- Michelle in Maui"

You Changed My Life!
I just want to say that your advice was like FOOD FOR MY SOUL!!! I feel like I have a sense of direction now. I expected you to say for me to just get rid of him and go on with my life. I wouldn't have gone along with that and would have still been miserable. You, my dear are a REAL woman and sister friend. I felt nothing but release after reading your advice because now I think I can take over the steering wheel instead of letting my lack of experience and my emotions drive me crazy. Thank you for giving me some positive, real and thought provoking advice and a framework for not only my relationship but also my life. -- Sonyke21

You Are So Right!
Too often, through negative experiences sell ourselves way short. I always try to take pride in myself I should find a mate that I can take pride in also. How could I have lost sight of this fact, I do not know. I needed the truth conveyed to me with authority,
sass and conviction, which is the only way I can relate to it. Thank you again for your sassy common sense. Your new fan -- RJ"

"You get Props Ms. HeartBeat!
You get my Kudos Heartbeat. You were speaking some truth on your radio broadcast "Why Can't I Find Somone to Love?" Frankly, I think 90% of us are confused, don't know what we want , just want something. As long a hookups and "arrangements" are status quo, monogamy minded individuals take a back seat. Anyway, KUDOS! Excellent show." -- Alvin (Purposed1)

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